The words ‘torrents of misinformation, disinformation,
advertising, spam, porn, noise and trivia’-brought to mind, of all things,
bats. Vampire Bats specifically. I will elaborate soon enough on this. The
phrase Epidemic of Loneliness requires my immediate attention.
I won’t deny I found delight in reading these three words. I am by my very
nature a loner, yet never has this inherent characteristic of mine seemed so
precious. You see-I am a digital exile. I worship, without shame or fear of
social ostracism, at the feet of our species higher cortical functioning, at
our genetic disposition to socialise-in “real time” conversations between flesh
and blood witnesses. I may not know who I am but I know who I am not. Reflecting
on those who exist almost primarily in the cloud of information that our
younger generation looks to for a sense of self-identity, makes me wonder when
removing the physicality’s of life became the sacrifice we make for a sense of
solidarity. The Road (not Jack Kerouac’s) but the one where our society trawls
along at all hours of everyday, letting it all ‘hang out’ in the hope that a passerby
will stop and reward our narcissistic displays of self-presenting with a
Facebook thumbs-up icon or, if the ‘goods are as good as they look’ (and social
media enables us the best in fictionless depiction) well then, you might just
earn the holy grail of social communication-the elusive and coveted “personal”
comment.
But let us get back to bats. When Stephen Marche
talks about a web of connections, he also talks about the instant and absolute
communication it enables us with. It sounds like the “New Republic”-yet we only
have to read on to discover that this online community, better called a colony,
which so cleverly avoids the possibility of Orwellian associations by negating
users to ‘social’ media has a price tag. Loneliness. For the majority, we all
embrace this virtual land of infotainment, and believe we are replenishing our
social status with every click of an ‘accept' friend request .We utilise the
tools the platforms provide to reinforce our social presence and in doing so,
are convinced we are attaining a surer sense of self and belonging. By
utilising both composed and one-click communication practices we are distancing
ourselves even further from community. The social reality?-“Maybe” attending
does not mean you are cruising the information highway, a symbol of a socially
networked online wonder. Our actions are what disconnects us and removes all
vestiges of altruism from our lives. Instead, we have, as Marche puts it to us,
‘outsourced the work of everyday caring’ to psychic servants. And the Vampire
bat? Quite the opposite. They establish long-term associations, often lasting
for up to more than 10 years. To really rub it-a female vampire bat will
willingly regurgitate part of her meal to a less successful friend. Bats will
vomit up blood to keep their communities alive-because sharing is recognised as
an important survival tool within their species. This reciprocal altruism is
what social media fails dismally to convey. The digital self-identity is based
on satisfying the constant prodding and demand of social media. Our community
relationships are governed by objective and impersonal expectations. To my
mind’s eye, there is no reciprocity within the social contracts forged
throughout our day-to-day digital lives. The only reason we share is for
the status attached to this reputable deed.
The social anxiety that hangs around people of
not being up-to-date and therefore somehow socially inferior perplexes me. In
essence, we are building our own “private” harems. One could argue that this is
a competitive impulse we have a genetic predisposition to perform. Not even
todays cultural/religious constraints can dissuade us from our fervent online
polygamy. Ask any anthropologist and they will tell you that harem keeping is
closer to our natural state. However, our harems offer only a culturally
imposed isolation. The information we share are merely ‘events’ that propel us
towards ‘nothing’. Osho calls becoming nobody as the ‘most difficult, almost
impossible, most extraordinary thing in the world’ (2008). Tom Robbins called
him ‘the most dangerous man since Jesus Christ’. Was, Robbons, was. The most
dangerous of us all is our collective, ‘always connected’ selves. Our sociality
stems from technological attributes. Our online dimorphism makes is hard to
believe we could ever possibly truly switch off from our ‘computer-obsessed
electronic global ghetto’-can we take a time out from the society Time
Out fittingly describes. Author Jeff Noon expands on the fears,
desires and impulsive tendencies that drive our digital lives. Can we
rethink and improve our lives by ‘turning off’? What of this foreign,
blasphemous notion so suggested by Leslie Perlow. I would like to believe that
we all carry the ability to communicate meaningfully and intelligently. If we
could utilise digital culture in a meaningful way, our Net smart’s will enable
a change from the frenzied, manipulative environment so many of us currently
coincide in. So, let us try and challenge assumptions and test boundaries and
empower ourselves with a time off.
A good starting point? Sam Lloyd’s Calm
down Boris! (Hand-puppet included, monster voice a must). Boris
teaches us that sometimes being big and tickly and kissy is what is exactly
what is needed in life….
.”The words ‘torrents of misinformation, disinformation,
advertising, spam, porn, noise and trivia’-brought to mind, of all things,
bats. Vampire Bats specifically. I will elaborate soon enough on this. The
phrase Epidemic of Loneliness requires my immediate attention.
I won’t deny I found delight in reading these three words. I am by my very
nature a loner, yet never has this inherent characteristic of mine seemed so
precious. You see-I am a digital exile. I worship, without shame or fear of
social ostracism, at the feet of our species higher cortical functioning, at
our genetic disposition to socialise-in “real time” conversations between flesh
and blood witnesses. I may not know who I am but I know who I am not. Reflecting
on those who exist almost primarily in the cloud of information that our
younger generation looks to for a sense of self-identity, makes me wonder when
removing the physicality’s of life became the sacrifice we make for a sense of
solidarity. The Road (not Jack Kerouac’s) but the one where our society trawls
along at all hours of everyday, letting it all ‘hang out’ in the hope that a passerby
will stop and reward our narcissistic displays of self-presenting with a
Facebook thumbs-up icon or, if the ‘goods are as good as they look’ (and social
media enables us the best in fictionless depiction) well then, you might just
earn the holy grail of social communication-the elusive and coveted “personal”
comment.
But let us get back to bats. When Stephen Marche
talks about a web of connections, he also talks about the instant and absolute
communication it enables us with. It sounds like the “New Republic”-yet we only
have to read on to discover that this online community, better called a colony,
which so cleverly avoids the possibility of Orwellian associations by negating
users to ‘social’ media has a price tag. Loneliness. For the majority, we all
embrace this virtual land of infotainment, and believe we are replenishing our
social status with every click of an ‘accept' friend request .We utilise the
tools the platforms provide to reinforce our social presence and in doing so,
are convinced we are attaining a surer sense of self and belonging. By
utilising both composed and one-click communication practices we are distancing
ourselves even further from community. The social reality?-“Maybe” attending
does not mean you are cruising the information highway, a symbol of a socially
networked online wonder. Our actions are what disconnects us and removes all
vestiges of altruism from our lives. Instead, we have, as Marche puts it to us,
‘outsourced the work of everyday caring’ to psychic servants. And the Vampire
bat? Quite the opposite. They establish long-term associations, often lasting
for up to more than 10 years. To really rub it-a female vampire bat will
willingly regurgitate part of her meal to a less successful friend. Bats will
vomit up blood to keep their communities alive-because sharing is recognised as
an important survival tool within their species. This reciprocal altruism is
what social media fails dismally to convey. The digital self-identity is based
on satisfying the constant prodding and demand of social media. Our community
relationships are governed by objective and impersonal expectations. To my
mind’s eye, there is no reciprocity within the social contracts forged
throughout our day-to-day digital lives. The only reason we share is for
the status attached to this reputable deed.
The social anxiety that hangs around people of
not being up-to-date and therefore somehow socially inferior perplexes me. In
essence, we are building our own “private” harems. One could argue that this is
a competitive impulse we have a genetic predisposition to perform. Not even
todays cultural/religious constraints can dissuade us from our fervent online
polygamy. Ask any anthropologist and they will tell you that harem keeping is
closer to our natural state. However, our harems offer only a culturally
imposed isolation. The information we share are merely ‘events’ that propel us
towards ‘nothing’. Osho calls becoming nobody as the ‘most difficult, almost
impossible, most extraordinary thing in the world’ (2008). Tom Robbins called
him ‘the most dangerous man since Jesus Christ’. Was, Robbons, was. The most
dangerous of us all is our collective, ‘always connected’ selves. Our sociality
stems from technological attributes. Our online dimorphism makes is hard to
believe we could ever possibly truly switch off from our ‘computer-obsessed
electronic global ghetto’-can we take a time out from the society Time
Out fittingly describes. Author Jeff Noon expands on the fears,
desires and impulsive tendencies that drive our digital lives. Can we
rethink and improve our lives by ‘turning off’? What of this foreign,
blasphemous notion so suggested by Leslie Perlow. I would like to believe that
we all carry the ability to communicate meaningfully and intelligently. If we
could utilise digital culture in a meaningful way, our Net smart’s will enable
a change from the frenzied, manipulative environment so many of us currently
coincide in. So, let us try and challenge assumptions and test boundaries and
empower ourselves with a time off.
A good starting point? Sam Lloyd’s Calm
down Boris! (Hand-puppet included, monster voice a must). Boris
teaches us that sometimes being big and tickly and kissy is what is exactly
what is needed in life….
.”